It makes myself look like a fool to go extra miles to help others. It is not my business and I cannot even fare for myself to waste so much time. It is true that by helping others, it makes one feel happy, but often, busy people have no luck to enjoy this.
Nobody will remember you forever given little things that you have done or sacrificed for. Being extra kind and easygoing is allowing people to step over you, trample on you and squeeze every drop of juice out from you.
Everything just makes me realise a distance should be kept between some people.
I guess, it is difficult to kick the helpful hobby off.