I try not to display my supreme observance because everyone has too many secrets to hide and too many lies to cover up; it causes fears in them. We have to forge ignorance at times to avoid being distant away.
There may be little things that cause displeases to us but we have to overlook them in case things blow up.
Have you tried too hard to show that you care for someone when you subconsciously do not wish to bother? Is it a sign of sympathy or benevolence?