No matter how hard we have been trying to be helpful, we cannot understand how others would judge us. There may be jealousy or misunderstanding, which we are unaware of.
Sometimes, we do get neglected. Then, we start wondering have we done anything wrong.
The images of me in the eyes of others may be too much of a big concern to myself.
Too much thought and concern for others has restricted me from doing things. There have been excess self-blaming and it simply belittles self-confidence.
I realise it does not make much of a big difference for nobody can do everything correctly nor accommodate everyone.