My head is bursting and there are still many important tasks left undone. Even if you can construct a designer, programmer, writer, researcher, administrator and internet-marketer into a single body, you can’t expect him to do everything at one go. And if you can ever do it, don’t make him a perfectionist.
In life, we get to meet new friends often. Some get to stay while some move off to a more suitable crowd.
“Hey, they are very nice people…”
Sometimes we sigh after we move on to a different environment when it takes extra effort to meet up with one another to the extent that we eventually quiet down the meeting. This is somehow inevitable for we have new commitments at new places and time does not spare us.
A worse way to part with friends is through miscommunication or a drama by third party, and in some cases, the third party is a common friend.
One of the worst situations I had been through was when I received a sudden confrontation from a good friend regarding how I had backstabbed him over a project. I wanted to quit the team due to time constraint and thus I did not wish to further get involved by speaking up for the unfairness of a major decision. Somehow, someone conveyed my thoughts to him behind me and definitely in a very twisted manner to sore our friendship.
A group of friends tried starting a business together to put their personal skills into good use. It was initially a zero-dollar start-up plan but after weeks when they realised some money had to be pooled in. The leader’s decision was that only the members who were going to contribute money would be the shareholders. Why would anyone give up his current career and struggle for months in the new project which may not work out in the end, just to pray hard to become an employee in the new company and able to get back the wages for the months of hard work?
I would love to help my friends like how I used to do since I was a child, but I am never young anymore to neglect my own future. I can no longer afford to do free freelance work that require lots of time.
Months later, I realise my friend count in Facebook has reduced by one. This is an extremely bad way to lose a friend, which has been haunting me, causing fears that history may repeat any time soon due to probably jealousy.
It is extremely ridiculous for adults to lose friends in this manner.
At the point of time Bobby slammed the car door close, I broke the silence caused by my sore throat. It was not a good time for celebration for I had to battle to overcome the pain on my fingers.
In life, we must accept the fact that some people may start drama behind us to destroy friendship. You never know that you may wake up one day losing one of your best friends and have no clue which common friend has played the devil.
Sometimes it’s planning that stalls dreams. When you foresee a large amount of work, you begin to worry, hesitate and find alternatives. Then you realise the time you have spent could have helped you to achieve your dreams.
Lucky refuses to pee. He only manages to reward himself with a small piece of bone, which I have dug out from his mouth soon to leave some tiny remainings inside.
I was carrying Lucky near his arms to clean his legs, swinging him sideways until he screamed in pain. Oppsss!
There are always some very small but useful features that you can implement to make a great difference. The problem is that you have to race against important functions that may require a long time to code. Project management is tough if you have limited manpower and resources.
One bowl of instant noodle is not enough to fill the stomach!
We have very smart people slowing down the progress of my work daily. It’s silly to troubleshoot to realise there is no error in the first place.