We all grow stronger over time. We learn to deal with people and stay away from those we feel difficult to talk to. However, there are some people whom we can’t avoid.
 
Woman: Do you want to eat this?
You: No.
Woman: Do you want to eat this?
You: No, don’t want.
(a while later)
Woman: This is good. Do you want to eat this?
You: No.
(a while later, the food is presented in front of you)
How are you going to react?
Option 1:
You: I don’t want to eat.
Woman: Waste my effort!
(next day, same thing happens again)
Option 2:
You (slightly higher tone): I have already told you I don’t want to eat.
Woman: Don’t want to eat then don’t want to eat lor! Don’t want to eat then say la. Waste my effort! 好心被雷劈！好心没好报！ … blah blah.
(next day)
Entire world, including dogs and cats (individually): What are you so rude?
(one week later, same thing happens again)
Option 3:
(you eat it, regardless of the taste, time of the day and how full you are)
(next day, same thing happens again)
 
In life, sometimes we really don’t have a good choice when making decision. Not everyone who tries to treat you nice will be doing you good always.