The world is big and choices are plentiful. There are wrong and bad options and we tend to make mistakes at times. As long as we learn from our failures and do our best in future, it does not matter even if we continue to be the losers in other people’s eyes. Life is like …
Tag Archives: philosophy
Listening – a Form of Showing Respect
After a short conversation, you may start to realise how much you appreciate someone who allows you to finish your words without interrupting. There may be hundreds of friends who care so much for you and always put your interest before theirs, but there are only a couple of them who are really to listen …
Ungrateful, Disrespectful and Rebellious
One way to judge a person is to observe. If you have helped him or her a lot in the past, even to the extent of bothering others, such as your boss, you probably have done enough to earn respect from everyone. At the point of time you witness him do something wrong and you …
Play a Game of No Lying
All minor lies eventually will turn into total lost of trust that every word, even if it is true, just seems too doubtful. It does not necessary require a strong lie to kill because a hundred minor lies will do almost the same. If you have anticipated something like that in the first place and …
Sweet but not so Sweet
Have you ever given a thought that would your girlfriend get along well with your family? Would you be spending your life with only your future wife or also together with your family? I always think that a good wife should be someone who is able to support her husband in his career, be it …
Never Allow Jokes to Turn Sour Again
Some jokes are meant to be told directly. If you have someone else to relay the same jokes to another person, the effects may be opposite. I have had it once and I would never want the history to be repeated. Sometimes, things cannot be helped and we can only hope for the best that …
Wrong Perception – Slow
Perception – whether in a good or bad view, it is hard to avoid being misunderstood. In many unforeseen and unavoidable situations, we are judged from a distance away. When we are packing up and rushing off to join friends who are already waiting, there will be chances colleagues halt us because our movements somehow …
Betray of Trust
People who give away friends’ numbers to their other friends who are strangers without seeking permission are insensible; perhaps, you can consider it as betrayal of trust. If you have a relative or friend who works as insurance agent, who proclaim themselves as “financial planner”, do not assume your friends want entertainments from him. How …
Give Up on the Hopeless
Confucius mentioned that if a person is not keen on listening, more preaching would only turn the good intention into self disgrace. It definitely makes a big difference if the lecturer is respected by the person. In case of the person not respecting the good will, why bother to continue? We have to learn to …
社会的未来冻梁
It was such a good experience to witness liars who stood bravely, strongly, and self proclaiming their honesty at the loose of their tails. If nothing were to be done, black paint would soon be out of stock in the society. If you want to rot your life away, in the hope of running away …